V-day Special

A wonderful gift on a wonderful day...

A million Thanks Namit...

Unspoken Truth

Bruised hurt, raw feelings, uprooted memories, unachieved goals, deserted heart, broken promises....

These painful situations might be pretty familiar to most of us.

we learn to live...learn to love...learn to trust someone more than our heartbeats....then why does it so happen that after we are betrayed we stop living...stop loving...stop trusting...???

Are we so cruel to always expect life to keep us happy...???

Why do we protest to accept our share of pain and sorrows...???

Life is not bed of roses...the sooner we realize this the easier it gets to row our boat across...

As most of the relations are short lived, the only thing I have got to learn from them is to "SPEAK OUT".

If one wants to be happy in a relationship, then it’s very important for him to use his voice...

One has to learn to say what he wants, what he likes, what he does not like...

P.S: Trust yourself, coz if u don’t...NO ONE WILL...

WHY..?

This is a very normal, commonly used word especially by me.
Half of my day goes in thinking why does certain things happen..?
Why does an egg crack ? Why do we get annoyed ? Why do flowers bloom ? Why is the sun larger than the moon ? Why is the water wet and fire hot ? But at the end of the day the only answer i manage to get is, " how m i suppose to know"?

Things don't just happen because they have to, every single happening needs to have a reason.
A reason which justifies it's occurrence completely. There might be infinite questions in every head asking for an answer. Isn't there anyone who can answer these questions? Why do these things have to happen when they are beyond explanations?


Answer to these questions may depend on the way one thinks.
If you are superstitious, you might probably link it to god, nature or even super natural powers.
If you are practical, you would believe that only science can make such things possible.
If you are among the "who cares" category of people, obviously these questions will never occur to your mind.
But again, neither you nor me can change the routine. these things have been happening from centuries without a reason to follow. And we, mere men, can just think of nothing better than one word "WHY"?

Blameworthy Fellowship

During one's lifetime there always comes a stage, a situation when one needs a shoulder. A person in front of whom you don't have to pretend, you can laugh out loud not bothering how lunatic u sound, you can cry out your feelings, share the most idiotic deed you were involved into. This person who is a part of you, standing right beside you is your 'Friend'.You just don't find friends, you make them. You mould them in your desired form.But sometimes it so happens that those people whom you trust, who you think are faithful, betrays you.I sometimes question myself, "is it so easy to back stab your best friend for your won greed"?well, i have personally experienced the pain of being involved in the asinine 'blame game' which was kick started by my own so-called Friend.She once topped my list of best friends. Things use to be so easy with her.We happen to know each other for 3 year. Things went on so well until that misfortunate day. From when the chain of lies began. " why me"? " why did she had to lie"? " Didn't she trust me"? She left so many questions unanswered.Things have changed then on, we are no more in contact.Now, her face, her words, her promises, the thought of times we spent with each other, every single thing disgusts me.One rotten apple can stale the whole lot. May be she was the rotten one.Its been quite a while now that i have seen her. Her sudden disappearance has only made my haterate for her stronger.This experience has proved one thing right about which i use to wonder alot before, 'pasts are meant to be learnt from and forgotten'. My past has certainly thought me a lesson which i promise never to forget.

Ageing Love..

Like most other girls, i do think about finding love, the right man, my soul mate.

Not a tall, dark, handsome hunk but yeah, an innocent, pure, trustworthy guy.

But the question is "how many of us really find true love"? We flirt, we hurt, we cheat and we repeat. Is this all what love is about...?

Today, after a break up no one bothers to ask, "hey, r u alright"? Rather they ask" hey dude, who's next"?

Who do we blame, the modernization? fashion?

Well, not actually, we are the one's responsible for changing the definition of true love from faith, trust, responsibility and belongingness to show off, time pass, link-ups and break-ups.

In earlier times the reason for splitting up would be either parents disagreement or difference in opinion. Now-a-days, we just don't run out of giving reasons," She's just not of my type", "He's too possessive","For heaven's sake, i wanted space" and the list goes on never to end.

Personally, i think it's high time we wake up. Love is not about showing off how cool your boyfriend is or how sexy your girlfriend looks but it's about how well you understand your mate. Love is like a french wine, the older it gets the better it tastes. If u love a person, love him/ her unconditionally and without any expectations. Trust me, love always gives more than you deserve to get !

"I, Me, Myself " doesn't this title give you a hint about the writer?

The first impression u might make would be something like, " Oh man, she's so self obsessed".

Well, let me clear the clouds of doubt rather misconceptions, I'm not self obsessed.

I dont really flaunt about my talents, especially when I know where i really stand.

I'm a normal, very ordinary teenage girl.

Very content with my lifestyle. Not expecting much from life. I'm one amongst those people who take life as it comes.

If given a choice between two paths, first the one which is well explored and the second which is yet to be discovered, i would opt the first.

I'm the one who would possiblely try her best to aviod surprises and shocks. This was a short intro of myself, the cover page of my life.
Getting to the later part, disclosing some not so personal details about myself.

I dont socialise often, not b'coz I'm self conscious but simple b'coz it doesn't intrests me.I'm not the suffer-in-silence kindda girl but being hovered by ur well wishers all the time is just so uncomfortable especially when u have a big mouth...lol
woh! I have written lot more than i had expected I would...

I had thought of keeping it short but as mentioned before "Big Mouth"... lol

Lets keep the rest until i make another visit to my blog..

And yeah, by the way for those who are interested to know my name, it's Aashi.
Chao :-)